Cyber Bullying

Updated: July 23, 2022

Cyberbullying refers to the use of digital communication tools, such as social media, texting, or online platforms, to harass, threaten, or harm individuals. It includes acts like spreading rumours, sending hurtful messages, or sharing embarrassing content, often causing emotional distress and psychological harm to victims.

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What Is Cyber Bullying?

Cyberbullying is a form of harassment and aggression conducted through digital communication channels, such as social media, text messages, emails, or online forums. It involves various harmful acts, including sending hurtful messages, sharing private or embarrassing information, spreading rumours, and even online impersonation. These acts are intended to cause emotional distress, humiliation, and psychological harm to the targeted individual.


The anonymity and wide reach of the internet make cyberbullying a pervasive and deeply concerning issue. Victims may experience increased levels of anxiety, depression, and social isolation, often leading to decreased self-esteem and overall well-being. Effective therapy can provide support and coping strategies for individuals affected by cyberbullying, helping them regain their mental and emotional resilience while addressing the emotional scars caused by this digital abuse.

What Are The Symptoms?

Behavioural Symptoms

Avoidance: Efforts to avoid online or offline situations where bullying may occur.


Academic Decline: Decreased focus and performance in school or work.


Self-Harm: In extreme cases, victims may engage in self-harming behaviours.


Substance Abuse: Some victims may turn to substance abuse to cope with emotional distress.


Changes in Online Behaviour: Altered internet or social media use patterns, such as withdrawal from platforms or avoiding specific individuals.


Social Withdrawal: Reduced interaction with friends, family, and peers.


Increased Privacy Measures: Implementing stricter online privacy settings or becoming more secretive about online activities.


Decline in Physical Health: Sleep disturbances, appetite changes, or physical ailments.


Suicidal Thoughts: In severe cases, victims may experience thoughts of self-harm or suicide.

Emotional Symptoms

Anxiety: Increased levels of nervousness, fear, or worry.


Depression: Persistent feelings of sadness, hopelessness, or worthlessness.


Anger: Frequent episodes of irritability or anger.


Low Self-Esteem: Decreased self-worth and self-confidence.


Isolation: Withdrawal from social activities or reluctance to engage with peers.


Stress: Elevated stress levels, often manifesting physically with headaches or stomach aches.


Fear: Anxiety about future online interactions or retaliation.


Guilt or Shame: Feeling responsible for the cyberbullying or embarrassed about it.

What Causes Cyber Bullying?

The causes of cyberbullying can be attributed to a range of factors that may drive individuals to engage in online harassment and aggression, including:


Anonymity: The relative anonymity offered by the internet can embolden individuals to engage in cyberbullying without revealing their true identities, making them less likely to face consequences.

Lack of Accountability: Online platforms often lack stringent measures to hold users accountable for their actions, providing a sense of impunity.

Peer Pressure: Peer groups or social circles may influence individuals to participate in cyberbullying as a means of fitting in or gaining social approval.

Revenge or Retaliation: Some cyberbullies may target others in response to perceived wrongs, seeking revenge or retaliation for past conflicts.

Jealousy or Envy: Feelings of jealousy or envy can drive individuals to target those who possess what they desire, leading to online aggression.

Lack of Empathy: Some individuals may have difficulties understanding or empathising with the emotional impact of their actions on others.

Online Disinhibition: The digital environment can lead to a reduced sense of inhibition, causing individuals to behave in ways they wouldn’t in face-to-face interactions.

Seeking Attention: Some individuals engage in cyberbullying to garner attention, reactions, or notoriety online.

Prejudice and Bias: Cyberbullying can be motivated by prejudice, discrimination, or bias against an individual’s race, religion, sexual orientation, or other characteristics.

Boredom or Amusement: In some cases, cyberbullying may stem from boredom or a desire for amusement at the expense of others.

Power and Control: Cyberbullies may seek to exert power and control over their victims, deriving satisfaction from the sense of dominance.

How Phinity Therapy Can Help

A Safe Space: At Phinity we offer a safe, non-judgmental space where you can openly discuss your experiences, emotions, and concerns related to cyberbullying.

Validation: We will validate how you are feelings based on your experiences, and acknowledge the emotional impact of cyberbullying on mental well-being.

Psychoeducation: We often educate our clients about cyberbullying, its common effects, and coping strategies to empower them.

Coping Strategies: Together we will help you develop effective coping strategies to manage the emotional distress caused by cyberbullying. Techniques may include stress management, mindfulness, and emotional regulation.

Digital Literacy: We also offer information about digital literacy and online safety, enabling clients to better protect themselves and respond to future cyberbullying incidents. This may also relate to helping you to report cyberbullying to the appropriate authorities, including schools or law enforcement, when necessary and appropriate. You can also learn about the legal and ethical aspects of cyberbullying, especially if legal measures are required.

Self-Esteem and Resilience: We can work on building self-esteem and resilience to help you better navigate the emotional challenges associated with cyberbullying.

Social Support: We may encourage you to seek social support from friends, and family, and assist you in improving your communication skills to empower you so that you can assert yourself and effectively address cyberbullying situations. Sometimes this may involve including your family in therapy, if necessary.

Self-Care: We will promote self-care practices, including a healthy lifestyle, exercise, and relaxation techniques to manage stress.

Boundary Setting: You can learn to establish and maintain healthy digital boundaries, including managing social media settings and privacy.

Healing from Trauma: For cases of severe cyberbullying, we will address the potential trauma responses and utilise trauma-informed therapy.

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